Penelope is the
wife of the main character, the king of
Ithaca,
Odysseus (Ulysses in Roman mythology), and daughter of
Icarius and his wife
Periboea. She only has one son by Odysseus,
Telemachus, who was born just before Odysseus was called to fight in the
Trojan War. She waits twenty years for the final return of her husband,
[6] during which she has a hard time snubbing marriage proposals from 108
[7] odious suitors (including
Agelaus,
Amphinomus,
Ctessippus,
Demoptolemus,
Elatus,
Euryades,
Eurymachus and
Peisandros, led by
Antinous).
On Odysseus's return, disguised as an old beggar, he finds that Penelope has remained faithful. She has devised tricks to delay her suitors, one of which is to pretend to be weaving a burial shroud for Odysseus's elderly father
Laertes and claiming that she will choose a suitor when she has finished. Every night for three years, she undoes part of the shroud, until some unfaithful maidens discover her chicanery and reveal it to the suitors.
Odysseus and Penelope by
Francesco Primaticcio (
1563).
Because of her efforts to put off remarriage, Penelope is often seen as a symbol of connubial fidelity. Although we are reminded several times of her fidelity, Penelope does begin to become restless (due in part to
Athena's meddling) and longs to "display herself to her suitors, fan their hearts, inflame them more" (xviii.183-84).
[8] She is ambivalent, variously calling out for
Artemis to kill her and, apparently, considering marrying one of the suitors. When the disguised Odysseus returns, she announces in her long interview with the disguised hero that whoever can string Odysseus's rigid bow and shoot an arrow through twelve axe shafts may have her hand. "For the plot of the Odyssey, of course, her decision is the turning point, the move that makes possible the long-predicted triumph of the returning hero".
[9]There is debate over the extent to which she is aware that Odysseus is behind the disguise. To Penelope and the suitors' knowledge, Odysseus (were he in fact present) would easily surpass all in any test of masculine skill. Since Odysseus seems to be the only person (perhaps excepting Telemachus) who can actually use the bow, it could merely have been another delaying tactic of Penelope's.
When the contest of the bow begins, none of the suitors is able to string the bow, except of course Odysseus, who wins the contest. Having done so, he proceeds to slaughter the suitors- Antinous first who he finds drinking from Odysseus' cup - with help from Telemachus, Apollo and two servants,
Eumaeus the
swineherd and
Philoetius the
cowherd. Odysseus has now revealed himself in all his glory, (with a little makeover by Athena) and it is standard (in terms of a recognition scene) for all to recognize him and be happy. Penelope, however, cannot believe that her husband has really returned—she fears that it is perhaps some god in disguise as Odysseus, as was the case in the story of
Alcmene—and tests him by ordering her servant
Euryclea to move the bed in their wedding-chamber. Odysseus protests that this cannot be done since he made the bed himself and knows that one of its legs is a living
olive tree. Penelope finally accepts that he truly is her husband, a moment that highlights their homophrosyne (like-mindedness).
In one story of the
Epic Cycle, subsequent to Odysseus' death, Penelope marries his son by
Circe,
Telegonus, with whom she becomes the mother of
Italus. Telemachus also marries
Circe when Penelope and Telemachus bring Odysseus's body to
Aeaea.